Will your marriage last? Use empirical evidence to defend your response.
Will your marriage last? Use empirical evidence to defend your response.
Why relationships end:
Why is the overall divorce rate so high? And why does it vary across the provinces?
- What we know, is that people tend to stay married if:
- Were married after age 20
- Both grew up in stable, two-parent homes
- Date a long while before marriage
- Are well and similarly educated
- Have a stable income from a good job
- Live in a small town or on a farm
- Did not cohabitate or become pregnant before marriage
- Are religiously committed
- Are of similar age, faith, and education
But let's say that a relationship is failing. Caryl Rusbalt has argued that three common ways of coping with a failing relationship are with the following responses (in addition to the 4th option of exiting the relationship):
Some people exhibit loyalty: they stay with the partner and hope things will get better
Others (especially men) exhibit neglect: they ignore the other person and hope it will go away
Others will voice their concerns and take active steps to improve the relationship -- this is clearly the best response as it provides the opportunity to improve things before the relationship ends.
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